Jenny Mundy-Castle’s book Every Time I Didn't Say No chronicles the black, white, and gray areas of consent.

Her story explores the impact of clearly non-consensual acts—such as being molested as a young child and forcibly raped as a teen by a man later identified as a serial killer—on her ability to understand boundaries and consent in adult relationships, including an emotionally and sexually abusive marriage. Taking place in settings ranging from New Mexico and Nigeria, to Scotland and an Ivy League campus, her story is a heartbreaking examination of one woman’s difficult path to learning what consent truly means.